OK! That was a lot of advice I received, But you know what they say... Don't ask if you can't take it
I really appreciated everybody taking time to tell me a bit of their own struggles and small victories. I will definitely take inspiration from all of the comments.
From where I stand it will probably look like this:
Take a bath later,
eat some solids later,
still have some breast milk around 10-11 pm,
try to cut out the night feeding little by little, giving him less and less milk.
If all of this fails, let him cry himself to sleep.
I just want to clarify a few things about yesterday's post. The little schedule I wrote down is really set by Finn, not by me. I do breast feed him on demand, it's just that he won't demand it so much any more. This by itself is a huge problem as my milk supply is not getting the message. Sometimes I will offer him the breast in desperation and all he does is look at me with either revolt or disgust! And with all that said the pediatrician wants to see him eat more solids! That would be about three containers a day plus two tablespoons of rice: DREAM ON.
Most of the time lately I feel that I have no clue whatever I am doing with him. Setting up this little time table helps me keep sane and guarantees he gets fed, something he is not particularly vocal about these days.
Last night he must have overheard this conversation, because he did only wake up once in the early morning and then didn't really ask for food until 7 am. Thomas took care of him and I barely noticed that I was sleeping alone. I woke up once to the sound of the rain ( bliss!!!!!).
It's my turn tonight, I am probably de facto on duty so we shall see. Maybe all he needs is more beer just before bed ( just kidding, I am not that negligent yet).